the First Law of Sannerz.

by 900 posted Sep 24, 2008
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Written by Eberhard Arnold five years after the founding of the Bruderhof, in 1925, our only written rule has proved easier to post than to practice. Yet without it, our movement would have collapsed long ago. For as Arnold writes, without openness and honesty there can be no loyalty, and thus no real community.



There is no law but love. Love is joy in others. What, then, is anger at them? Words of love convey the joy we have in the presence of our brothers and sister. It is out of the question to speak about another person in a spirit of irritation or vexation.

 

There must never be talk, either in open remarks or by insinuation, against any brother or sister, or against their individual characteristics — and under no circumstances behind their back. Gossiping in one's family is no exception. Without this rule of silence there can be no loyalty and hence no community. Direct address is the only way possible. It is a service we owe anyone whose weaknesses cause a negative reaction in us.

 

An honest word spoken openly and directly deepens freindship and will not be resented. Only when two people do not come to an agreement quickly is it necessary to draw in a third person whom both of them trust . In this way they can be led to a solution that unites them in the highest and deepest levels.

 

Hang this reminder at your place of work, where it will always be before your eyes. EA, 1925